Take some time to read this and don't misunderstand
him with someone he is not. :)
Raafay is a kind of friend that one
would love to have. He is a person who loves making new friends and to explore
human nature. He is a kind of guy who wouldn't mind saying HI to start a
conversation. He is someone who would love to hear your story and would
appreciate you wherever he could. But he would barely tell his own, not because
he doesn't want to, but because he thinks HIS story as not as important as
other's. Or no one would want to know it. Or he doesn't want people to be sad
because of him. Even though the thing is opposite. Many of us know him a bit and
want to know more about him, but we don't know how. Because we're not sure if
he'd tell. He just wants everyone happy. So he makes sure that he's not hurting
anyone, anywhere. From my perspective, Raafay is someone, who is different from
the usual people of his age. He is better than them. In most of the aspects. Although
people misunderstand him by thinking 'He has already got so many friends, why
would he need me? or he doesn't need me.' That's where we're mistaken. Thats
where we hurt him the most. Without even knowing. Look, let me clear this thing.
Each person has HIS OWN importance or place in one's life. And keep one thing in
your mind, that NO ONE ELSE. Just NO ONE can replace YOU or the place that YOU
hold in anyone's life. So be cool about it. He's someone, who would never let
you go. Who would always hold on to you no matter how hard it is. Whatever
happens, he'll always be by your side, to tell you that everything's gonna be
alright. In your bad times, when eventually everyone else would leave you, he
will stay with you. To show you the brighter side of things. You can count on
him each time. But there are very less people on whom he can count. That is
indeed a very sad thing. He too, keep expectations from others, but ends up
getting hurt when people misunderstand him most of the time. The Raafay we know,
is someone who has always been lively, cheerful, optimistic and happy. But only
few people know his other side. Inside him, there is a person, who too gets hurt
by peoples rude gestures and comments. But he doesn't show it. Instead, he
remains silent and doesn't hate them. Because he is strong. Stronger than us
at least. He doesn't like to whine about his matters in front of others, unlikely
us. He wants to bring change in our society, one person each. :) He's the kind
of person who'd point out the good in you and would appreciate you for it. And
even he'd try to bring it out, in front of others just so that you could be more
confident about it. You wouldn't find even a fragment of proudness in him.
Because it is not his nature, he behaves nice with everyone. Treats everyone
with the same behavior. Even if you're his new friend. People oftenly
misunderstand him with being a flirt. Let me tell you, there is a lot of
difference in being a flirt and being nice to everyone. He feels that one can
change others with positive behavior, so he does behave positively, to
everything and to everyone. Even to the ones who hate him or who have left him
due to any reason. He tries to find happiness in every little thing and loves to
share it with others. He has every quality that you look for, in your friend.
Its been an year since I know him. This
is what I came up with. There was a time when I also used to think the way
others do. But I know where I was wrong. That was not the Raafay I used to believe he is. He is what I know of him now. And all of you should know too. o
you don't hurt him even by mistake.
Happy Birthday Raafay, stay happy.
Always. You deserve to be.
-Aay.
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